Overwhealm vs Balance

Steven L. Keough a.k.a. Coach Steve (MC², MBA)

If you are not in overwhelm what are you in? Are you perfectly balanced?

The very last thing you want is a life of "overwhelm" and this blog posting will help clear that up for YOU!

I've always found it fascinating that in the dictionary, at least mine, there is no term of "whelm" or "under-whelm", there is only overwhelm. Interesting to notice that the scholars immediately jump to overwhelm as it relates to the word and describing it in our everyday lives. Most people, based on my 17 years of coaching them, are suffering from some form of overwhelm when I take them on as a client. The normal complaint is "too much to do and not enough time to do it."

That same dictionary defines overwhelm as "to crush, to overpower and to bury beneath." OUCH! If anyone is living a life like that they need help and they need it NOW! Here's how my clients have defined it. I'm "tired, exhausted, have too much to do, have no free time, can't bear the thought of it, I'm frozen, paralyzed, stuck, and on and on. "How did this happen to me?"

A better definition might be "being out of balance with time". You see, overwhelm seems to always be associated with time, time use, time planning, time, time, time! This is why I stress to my clients that time is MORE valuable than money, because if you are out of balance and you burn time, you NEVER get it back. Feeling that deficit in your makeup you try to cram more into the day, creating your own chaos, and then feeling a bigger deficit, so you cram more, and so on.

Honestly, it is just a bad habit that his lived way too long in your life and needs to be replaced.

Is there really not enough time? How does someone, other than you, get so much done? Is it possible they know something you don't know? Do they have a system for it? Is there a secret?

The secret is YOU are allowing it to happen to YOU! Most people I know don't protect their boundaries very well. They are afraid they will offend somebody by saying "No", "Not Yet" or "Not Now." But in that process of having the "image" of being a nice person, you are driving yourself toward overwhelm rather than to ??? Oh, there is no whelm or underwhelm, so um driving yourself toward......... the frickin nut house. That image is killing you. Yes, you are a "nice person" on the outside, but you're a mess on the inside. I'm not saying to be a jerk, just gently learn to say No, Not Yet or Not now. Can't do it? Then you are doomed to a life of more overwhelm, simple as that. Do you really wish to live that way? Of course not, so the question becomes how to get off the exercise wheel, to stop running from thing to thing to thing?

This is a habit that likely took a long time to create and there could be some underlying factors connected to this such as low self-respect (boundary holding) or a need to please others, but whatever it may be, you can get balance back in your life! How can you do this, easy with a coach helping you to see what today might be a blind spot for you due to all your running around.

Not to sound self-serving, however take myself for instance. How can I run four companies, internationally, write my articles, books, handbooks, blogs, etc. and NOT feel overwhelmed? I have balance! I have a system. And I'm not very disciplined of a person, I just know my system. I know that it works so I stick to it, and know that I'm not interested in any other or new systems. Now I must admit, over the years I have tried a zillion systems until I created this one about 15 or 18 years ago, and now I am happier, healthier and able to do so much more to maintain my freedom, especially my financial freedom which comes from wealth building. I HAVE TO have that time to wealth build or I'll have the opposite; wealth depletion time (overwhelm) where we sit around and do nothing, or numb out watching TV, or sleep our lives away. Or worse, start to worry or doubt, which eventually lets fear creep into my existence.

None of us want or need any of that. What we need is a good guide to follow to stay in balance and remain powerful and in control of our days, and our lives. You very own private and personal coach is there to support you to knock out the overwhelm and get you back in balance.

What can be done for you to eliminate overwhelm? How can you eradicate it once and for all from your life? Can you do it alone? I think not and that's why I spent so much time covering this with my coaches recently. I, and they now too, completely understand what it is like "trying" to live life in the "fast lane." It's too crazy, you "feel" out of control and eventually you shut down. That shut down is your brain (protective device) and your body (mentally induced exhaustion) saying enough! But through a series of exercises and reinforcement of a newly structured system for balance creation and strengthening you to politely say "no, not now and not yet" you gain control of things and the "feeling" of overwhelm gets replaced with another feeling, whatever that may be.

In summary, your bad habit gets replaced with a good habit and your bad feelings get replaced with new feelings. Sound good? Sure, so look below and perhaps take advantage of our coaching offer for this blog posting.

To Your Greater Success!

Thanx…SLK


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About Coach Steve

Steven L. Keough or Coach Steve as he prefers is the Founder & CEO of his coaching company Straight Forward Coaching, an Internationally recognized coaching enterprise. Coach Steve operates four very busy companies: of course Straight Forward Coaching, CoachingProducts.org (North America), CoachingProductsInternational.org (Overseas Operations and Non-English Speaking Products), and finally Business Coach Alliance for the training of coaches to be better certified coaches. Yes, we actually train many of the coaches that most organizations will hire.
Steve is also a multiple book Author (5 at this time), Handbook Author (24 at this time), Home Learning Course Creator (4 at this time), Speaker, Trainer and Master Certified Coach himself, a product of the product, and most proud to be a Coaching Curriculum Developer, changing thousands, if not millions, of lives for the better with his materials. He has coaches people for nearly two decades and has amassed over 20,000 hours of coaching individuals and businesses!
Certified in 12 different coaching distinctions, Coach Steve’s books are best-sellers and his materials have been translated into multiple languages and are available in over 100 countries! Visit Coach Steve at www.stevekeough.com or call 1-888-341-Coach (2622).